Wednesday, August 5, 2009

The Nine Gems of Akbar


The Mughal Emperor Akbar (1543-1605), though illiterate and unable to read or write, demonstrated a remarkable appreciation of other religious thoughts. He was also a connoisseur of music and fine arts. The Mughal architecture, that later culminated in the glorious Taj Mahal, found its beginnings in Akbar's rule. Music and miniature paintings reached their zenith. His tolerance to other religions perhaps came from his many queens including his principle wife who was a Hindu. He had also married a Christian, and several Indian and Persian Muslim women. Akbar reigned as the Mughal monarch for several decades and established himself as the most benevolent, tolerant Emperor; and history knows him as Akbar the Great.

The court of Akbar held some of the best India had to offer at that time. The Emperor had an enormously curious intellect. He would routinely assemble religious leaders of other religions in his court and patiently listen to them. Thus it was not only Hinduism he was curious about but had Christian missionaries who were more and more common after Vasco da Gama visited India. Buddhism, Sikhism and Jainism also were his fascinations. He eventually formed his own religion, Din Ilahi, gathering the best from his understanding of the various religions. Akbar married thirty three times and had brides from all faiths. With his alliances with the daughters of nobles, he was able to bring peace in his empire. Several Rajput kings were his relatives by marriage and were loyal to him. Diplomacy through matrimony!

The great administrator who was also an aficionado of the arts attracted the best contemporary minds to his court. Nine such extraordinary talents, who shone brightly in their respective fields, were known as Akbar's nine gems. The nomenclature as nine gems is chosen because there are nine well-known gems (nava-rathna). There were endless lists of worthy people in his court that shone like the brightest gems, and to choose only nine amongst them is a difficult task indeed.

  1. Abul Fazl (1551-1602) was the chronicler of Akbar's rule. He authored the biographical Akbarnama, which was the result of seven years of painstaking work. He documented the history meticulously, giving a full and accurate picture of the prosperous life during the monarch's reign. His account also shed light on the brilliant administrative capacity of the Emperor.

  2. Faizi (1547-1595) was Abul Fazl's brother. He was a poet writing verses in Persian. Akbar had enormous respect for this genius and appointed him as a tutor for his son. His famous work is called Lilabati, on mathematics.

  3. Mian Tansen was a classical singer of unparalleled fame. He was born a Hindu in 1520 near Gwalior to Mukund Mishra, who was a poet himself. He learnt music from Swami Haridas and later from Hazrat Mohammad Ghaus. He was a court musician with the prince of Mewar and later recruited by Akbar as his court musician. The prince of Mewar was said to have been heartbroken to part with him. Tansen became a legendary name in India and was the composer of many classical ragas. His raga Deepak and raga Megh Malhar are famous. When he sang these ragas, Tansen was said to have lit the lamp and caused rain showers. He is also credited with creating raga Darbari Kanada and originating Drupad style of singing. Even today the classical gharanas try to align themselves with Mian Tansen. He was buried in Gwaliar, where a tomb has been constructed for him. There is a tamarind tree next to the tomb, which is reputed to be as old as the tomb itself. It is believed that one who chews a leaf from this tree in earnest faith will be bestowed with musical talents. It is unclear if Tansen converted to Islam. Akbar who was very fond of him gave him the title Mian. Tansen's son Bilas Khan composed raga Bilaskhani Todi and his daughter Saraswati Devi was a well-known Drupad singer.

  4. Birbal (1528-1583) was a poor Brahmin who was appointed to the court of Akbar for his wit as well as wisdom. Born by the name Maheshdas, he was conferred the name Raja Birbal by the Emperor. A man of tireless wit and charm, he enjoyed the Emperor's favor in administration as his trusted minister, and for his entertainment as his court jester. There are many witty stories of exchanges and interactions between the monarch and his minister that are popular even today. The stories are thought provoking, intelligent as well as educational. Birbal was also a poet and his collections under the pen name 'Brahma" are preserved in Bharatpur Museum. Raja Birbal died in battle, attempting to quell unrest amongst Afghani tribes in Northwest India. Akbar was said to have mourned for a long time on hearing the news.

  5. Raja Todar Mal was Akbar's finance minister, who from 1560 onwards overhauled the revenue system in the kingdom. He introduced standard weights and measurements, revenue districts and officers. His systematic approach to revenue collection became a model for the future Mughals as well as the British. Raja Todar Mal was also a warrior who assisted Akbar in controlling the Afghan rebels in Bengal. Raja Todar Mal had learnt his craft from another able administrator Sher Shah. In 1582, Akbar bestowed on the raja the title Diwan-I- Ashraf.

  6. Raja Man Singh, the Kacchwaha rajput raja of Amber. (Later Kacchwahas built Jaipur, close to Amber). This trusted lieutenant of Akbar was the grandson of Akbar's father-in-law. His family had been inducted into Mughal hierarchy as amirs (nobles). Raja Man Singh assisted Akbar in many fronts including holding off advancing Hakim (Akbar's half-brother, a governor of Kabyul) in Lahore. He also led campaigns in Orissa.

  7. Abdul Rahim Khan-I-Khan, a poet was the son of Akbar's trusted protector and caretaker when he was a teenager, Bairam Khan. After Bairam Khan was murdered by treachery, his wife became the second wife of Akbar.

  8. Fagir Aziao Din and  (9) Mullan Do Piaza were two advisors belonging to Akbar's inner circle.

I have seen other names mentioned as gems of Akbar's court. Daswant, the painter and Abud us-Samad, a brilliant calligrapher, have also been named in some articles. Mir Fathullah Shiraz, who was a financier, philosopher, astrologer and an astute physician, has also been mentioned. Nevertheless, it is apparent that Akbar's court was filled with brilliant minds in the fields of art, administration and warfare.

With these varieties of brave soldiers with sharp intellect and wit as well as some of the greatest names in the world of art and music, Akbar ruled what history calls the greatest Mughal Empire. Akbar came to be called the greatest of the six great Mughal emperors. The foresight of this illiterate and dyslexic Emperor was remarkable and unique in history.  


Oye lucky lucky Oye!



Tuesday, August 4, 2009

A Govt Job!

 
A  guy went to the Post Office to apply for a job.
 
The interviewer  asked him, "Are you allergic to anything?"
He replied, "Yes -  caffeine."
"Have you ever been  in the militar y service?"
"Yes,'  he replied. 'I did two combat  tours in Afghanistan ."
The  interviewer  said, "That will give you 5 extra points toward employment." Then he  asked, "Are you disabled in  any way?"
The guy said,  "Yes...an IED exploded near me  and I lost both of my  testicles."
 
The interviewer  grimaced  and then said, "O.K.  You've got enough points for me  to hire you right now.  Our normal hours are from 8:00 A.M. to 4:00  P.M.  You can start tomorrow at 10:00 - and plan to start at 10:00  A.M.. every day.."
 
The guy was puzzled  and asks, "If the work hours are from 8:00 A.M. to 4:00 P.M., w hy do you want me to be here at 10:00 A.M.? why not at 8:00am?"
 
"This is a government  job," the interviewer said.  "For the first two hours, we just stand  around drinking coffee and scratching our balls. No point in you coming in  for that."
 
 
 
--
"If Death comes to me before I prove my blood, I promise I'll kill Death." - Capt Vikram Batra, PVC, The Great Kargil Hero.
 
 
 

Monday, August 3, 2009

"Good morning" in more than 250 languages


 

 
 
Have all the language options open......
 
Adyghe (Middle East)                         Wipchadiz shoo
Adyghe (Middle East)                         Femahoophoh
Afrikaans (Southern Africa)                  Goeie môre
Aklanon (Philippines)                        Mayad nga agahon
Aklanon (Philippines)                        Mayad-ayad nga agahon
Albanian (Albania, Yugoslavia)               Mirëmëngjes
[Aleut, see
Unagan]
Amharic (Ethiopia) [to male]                 Indemin adderk
Amharic (Ethiopia) [to female]               Indemin addersh
Amharic (Ethiopia) [to several]              Indemin adderachihu
[Amungme, see
Damal]
Anglo-Saxon (England)                        God morgen
Apache [Jicarilla] (Arizona USA)             Daanzhonl da
Arabic (N Africa, Middle East)               Sabaah al-khayr
Arabic (Egypt)                               SabaaH el kheer
Arabic (Egypt) [answer]                      SabaaH el nuur
Arabic (Egypt)                               Sabar el rir
Arabic (Lebanon)                             Sabah el-khayr
Arabic (Morocco)                             Sbah lkhir
Aragonese (Aragon Spain)                     Buen diya
Aragonese (Aragon Spain) [in spoken lang.]   Güen diya
Armenian [Western] (Armenia)                 Pari luis
Armenian [Eastern] (Armenia)                 Bari luis
Aromunian (Greece, Balkans)                  Bunã dimineatsa
Asante (Ghana) [to one person]               Maakyé
Asante (Ghana) [to several people]           Memá mo akyé
Asturian (Spain)                             Bonos díes
Asturian (Spain)                             Bon día
Atayal (Taiwan)                              Zibok su'
Atayal (Taiwan) [answer]                     Zibok su' uzi
[Aukan, see
Ndjuka]
Aymará (Bolivia, Peru, Chile)                Aski churatam
Aymará (Bolivia, Peru, Chile)                Winus tiyas
Azerbaijani (Azerbaijan)                     Sabahiniz xeyir
Azerbaijani (Azerbaijan) [informal]          Sabahiz xeyir
Azerbaijani (Iran)                           Sahariz xeyir

Bakitara (Central Africa)                    Oirwota?
Bakitara (Central Africa) [answer]           Ndabanta
Bakweri (Cameroon)                           O wusi
Bambara (Mali)                               I ni sogoma
Bambara (Mali) [to several people]           Aw ni sogoma
Bambara (Mali) [did you sleep in peace?]     Here sira wa?
Bambara (Mali) [answer: peace only]          Here dogon
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to one person]       I ni tilenna
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to several people]   Aw ni tilenna
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to one person]       I ni tile
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to several people]   Aw ni tile
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to one; spoken]      I ni t'le
Bambara (Mali) [midday; to several; spoken]  Aw ni t'le
Bashkir (Russia)                             Kheyerle irte
Basque (Spain, France)                       Egun on
Belorussian (Belarus)                        Dobraj ranicy
Belorussian (Belarus)                        Dobraha ranku
Bemba (Zambia, Zaire)                        Mwashibukeni
Bengali (Bangladesh, India)                  Shu pravat
Bengali (Bangladesh, India)                  Shubho shokal
Bilen (Bogos Ethiopia)[you enjoy the night?] Aja kruKwma?
Bilen (Bogos Ethiopia) [yes, good morning]   MerHaba, aja kruKwma
Bislama (Vanuatu)                            Gud morning
Bislama (Vanuatu)                            Mone
Bole (Nigeria)                               Barka saato
Bole (Nigeria)                               Yawwa
Bosnian (Bosnia and Hercegovina)             Dobro jutro
Bosnian (Bosnia and Hercegovina)[by Muslims] Sabah hajrula
Brigidian (western Ireland)                  Mornez mahaha
Bulgarian (Bulgaria)                         Dobro utro

Cantonese (China)                            Jo san
Cantonese (China)                            Zan san
Cassubian (Northweast Poland)                Dzén dobri
Catalan (Andorra, Spain, France)             Bon dia
Chamorro (Guam, Mariana Island)              Oga'an maolek
Chamorro (Guam, Mariana Island)              Buenas dihas
Chatino (Tataltepec Mexico)                  Cua nque' msaa
Chechen (North Caucasus Russia)              Cürea dika yoila
Chechen (North Caucasus Russia)              'Yyr dik joil
Cheke Holo [Maringe] (Solomon Islands)       Keli fara
Cheke Holo [Maringe] (Solomon Islands)       Hameron keli
Cherokee (Oklahoma & North Carolina USA)     Os-da-su-na-le
Cheyenne (USA)                               Pévevóona'o
Chichewa (Malawi) [morning]                  Mwadzuka bwanji
Chinyanja (Southern Africa)                  Mwadzuka bwanji
Chinyanja (Southern Africa)                  Mwauka bwanji
Chishona (Southern Africa)                   Mangwánaní
Chishona (Southern Africa) [by women]        Mangwánaní shéwe
Chishona (Southern Africa) [by men]          Mangwánaní chirombówe
Chishona (Southern Africa) [to women]        Mangwánaní mái
Chishona (Southern Africa) [to men]          Mangwánaní babá
Chishona (S. Africa) [1: by first person]    Mangwánaní
Chishona (S. Africa) [2: answer to #1        Mangwánaní marara sei?
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2, sing.] Ndarara kana mararawo
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2, sing.] Ndarara mararawo
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2,plural] Tarara kana mararawo
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2,plural] Tarara mararawo
Chishona (S. Africa) [4: answ. to #3, sing.] Ndarara
Chishona (S. Africa) [1: by first person]    Mangwánaní
Chishona (S. Africa) [2: answer to #1        Mangwánaní mamuka sei?
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2, sing.] Ndamuka, mamukawo?
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2, sing.] Ndamuka
Chishona (S. Africa) [3: answ. to #2,plural] Tamuka, mamukawo?
Chishona (S. Africa) [4: answ. to #3,plural] Tamuka
Chitonga (Africa)                            Mwabuka buti
Choctaw (USA)                                Onnahinli pvt achukma
Chuuk (Chuuk Island Micronesia)              Neesor ánnim
Chuvash (Russia)                             Yra ir pultar
Comoran (Comoros)                            Bariza soubouni
Comoran (Comoros)                            Habhari za asubhwihi
Cornish (Great Britain)                      Myttin da
Creole (Dominican Republic)                  Bon jou
Croatian (Croatia, Bosnia)                   Dobro jutro
Czech (Czech Republic)                       Dobré jitro
Czech (Czech Republic)                       Dobré ráno

Dagaare (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                Fo angsoma
Dagaare (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                Ye angsoma
Dagaare (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                Fo gaao be song?
Dagaare (Ghana, Burkina Faso) [answer]       Oo, o be song
Damal (Indonesia)                            Amole
Danish (Denmark, Greenland)                  God morgen
Danish (Denmark, Greenland) [before noon]    God formiddag
Danish (Denmark, Greenland) [noon]           God middag
Danish (Jutland)                             Mojn
Dhivehi (Maldives)                           Baajja veri hendhuneh
Dusun (Sabah Malaysia)                       Kopisanangan dongkosuabon
Dutch (Netherlands)                          Goedemorgen
Dutch (Netherlands) [in spoken language]     Goeiemorgen
Dyula (Burkina Faso, C. d'Ivoire, Mali)      I ni sogoma
Dyula (W Africa) [did you sleep in peace?]   Hèrè sirawa?
Dyula (W Africa) [reply: peace only]         Hèrè dron

Edo (Nigeria)                                Ób'ówie
Ekegusii (Kenya)                             Bwakire buya
Ekegusii (Kenya) [how was the night?]        Kwabokire?
Ekegusii (Kenya) [answer: fine]              Buya
Enga (Papua New Guinea)                      Yongáma
Enga (Papua New Guinea)                      Yongámo
English (America, Australia, UK)             Good morning
English [Middle English]  (Great Britain)    Gode morweninge
Esperanto (international use)                Bonan matenon
Estonian (Estonia)                           Tere hommikust
Estonian (Estonia) [older]                   Tere hommikust aega
Estonian [Old Estonian] (old Estonia)        Terveh hoommikkosta aigaa
Eton (Cameroon)                              Mbe mbe kiri
Eton (Cameroon) [answer]                     Kiri mbang
Ewe (Ghana, Togo)                            Mudobo
Ewe (Ghana, Togo)                            Neefon

Faroese (Faroe Islands)                      Goðan morgun
Farsi (Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan)          Sobh beh'khayr
Fijian (Fiji)                                Yadra
Fijian (Fiji)                                Ni sa yadra
Finnish (Finland)                            Hyvää huomenta
Finnish (Finland) [informal]                 Huomenta
Fon (Benin, Togo)                            Kudo zan zan 
Fon (Benin, Togo)                            A fon gangi a?
Fon (Benin, Togo)                            A fon kede a?
Fon (Benin, Togo) [reply]                    Een, un fon gangi
Fon (Benin, Togo)                            A damlo gangi a?
Fon (Benin, Togo) [reply]                    Een, un damlo gangi          
Fore (Papua New Guinea)                      Ábayawé
French (Europe, Africa, Canada)              Bonjour
French (Europe, Africa, Canada)              Bon matin
French (Europe, Africa, Canada)              Bonne matinée
Frisian (Netherlands, Germany)               Moarn
Frisian (Netherlands, Germany)               Goemoarn
Frisian (Schleswig-Holstein Germany)         Gud maaren
Fulani (West Africa)                         Jam waali

Gagauz (southern Moldova)                    Sabaa khair olsun
Galician (Spain)                             Bom día
Galician (Spain)                             Bos días
Galician (Spain)                             Bons días
Gbhandi (Liberia)                            Yanela
Georgian (Georgia)                           Dila mshvidobisa
German (Central Europe)                      Guten Morgen
German (Vienna Austria) [in spoken language] Gun moang
German (Bavarian Alps) [in spoken language]  Guatn Moagn
German (Switzerland) [in spoken language]    Guetä Morgä
German (Bern Switzerland) [spoken language]  Gu-ete Morge
German [Südhessisch] (Germany)               Moin
German (Zurich Switzerland) [spoken lang.]   Gu-ëte Morgë
German (Zurich Switzerland) [spoken lang.]   Gu-etä Morge
German (Zurich Switzerland) [old]            Morgë
Greek (Greece, Cyprus)                       Kalimera
Guaja (Brazil)                               Zeng
Guarani (Paraguay)                           Mba'éichapa ne ko'ê
Guarani (Paraguay) [answer]                  Cheko'ê porâ, ha nde
Gujarati (India)                             Shubh prabhaat

Hakka (China, Malaysia)                      Zao sin
Hassaniya (Mauritania)                       Saloma alaykom
Hausa (West Africa)                          Barkà dà kwana
Hausa (West Africa)                          Barkà dà safe
Hausa (West Africa)                          Barkà dà asuba
Hausa (West Africa)                          Ina kwana
Hausa (West Africa) [response]               Lapiyalo
Hausa (West Africa) [midday]                 Barkà dà rana
Hawaiian (Hawaii) [rarely used]              Aloha kakahiaka
Hawaiian (Hawaii) [midday - rarely used]     Aloha awakea
Hebrew (Israel)                              Boker tov
Hindi (India, East Asia)                     Shubha prabhaat
Hindi (India, East Asia)                     Vanakkam
Hiri Motu (Papua New Guinea)                 Dada namona
Hmong Daw (Laos, Thailand) [rarely used]     Nyob zoo thaum sawv ntxov
Hmong Daw (Laos, Thailand)[rarely used-noon] Nyob zoo thaum tavsu
Huasteco (San Luis Potosí Mexico)            Tahk'ane:nek
Hungarian (Hungary)                          Jó reggelt

Icelandic (Iceland)                          Góðan daginn
Icetot (Uganda) [to one person]              Epida
Icetot (Uganda) [to several people]          Epita
Ido (international use)                      Bona matino
Igbo (Nigeria)                               Ezigbo ututu
Igbo (Nigeria)                               Isala chi
[Ik, see
Icetot]
Ilokano (Philippines) [formal]               Naimbag a bigatyo
Ilokano (Philippines) [informal]             Naimbag a bigatmo
Ilokano (Philippines)                        Naimbag nga bigat 
Ilokano (Philippines) [noon, formal]         Naimbag ñga aldawyo
Ilokano (Philippines) [noon, informal]       Naimbag ñga aldawmo
Ilokano (Philippines) [noon]                 Naimbag nga aldaw
Ilonggo (Philippines)                        Maayong buntag
Indonesian (Indonesia, Surinam)              Selamat pagi
Ingush (Russia)                              Wijra dika xajla hwa
Ingush (Russia) [answer to above]            Hwa 'a xajla wijra dika
Ingush (Russia) [answer elder > young man]   Duqa vaaxalva hwo
Ingush (Russia) [answer elder > young men]   Duqa daaxalda sho
Ingush (Russia) [answer elder > young woman] Duqa jaaxiila hwo
Ingush (Russia) [answer elder > midage]      Maarsha-ca vaaxalva hwo
Ingush (Russia) [answer elder > midage pl]   Maarsha-ca daaxalda sho
Interlingua (constructed)                    Bon matino
Inuktitut (Baffin Island Canada)             Ullaakkut
Inuktitut (Canada)                           Ullakut
Iñupiaq (Alaska)                             Uvlaalluaqtaq
Irish Gaelic (Ireland, Britain)              Maidin mhaith
Irish Gaelic (Ireland, Britain)              Dia dhuit ar maidin
Italian (Cent. Europe, E Africa)             Buon giorno
Itbayaten (Batanes Philippines)              Kapian ka pa nu Dios aschapanderak
Ivasayen (Batanes Philippines)               Capian ka pa nu Dios si chamavucjas

Japanese (Japan)                             Ohayo
Japanese (Japan)                             Ohayo gozaimasu
Japanese [Tohoku Ben] (Northeast Japan)      Ohayo-sama
Japanese [Nosaka] (Nosaka-machi Japan)[noon] O agan nasai mashi
Javanese (Indonesia)                         Sugeng enjang
Javanese (Indonesia)                         Sugeng enjing

Kadazan (Sabah Malaysia)                     Kopivosian donsuvab
Kalaallisut (Greenland)                      Iterluarit
Kalaallisut (Greenland)                      Ku-moorn
Kangbe (West Africa)                         E nee somah
Kangbe (West Africa) [how was your night?]   Tanna mahssee
Kapampangan (Philippines)                    Mayap ayabak
Kapampangan (Philippines) [formal]           Mayap ayabak pu
Karaim (Lithuania, Ukraine)                  Tan jachshy
Karelian (Karelia Russia)                    Hüvä päivä
Karitiana (Brazil)                           Goy'hap
Karitiana (Brazil)                          
Kasem (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                  De N zezenga
Kasem (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                  De N de zezenga
Kasem (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                  De N waaro
Kasem (Ghana, Burkina Faso)                  De N peiga
Kasigau (Kenya) [have you woken up well?]    Wawuka?
Kasigau (Kenya) [I have woken up well]       Nawuka
Kazakh (Kazakstan, C. Asia, China)           Khayrly tanj
Kekchi (Guatemala)                           Ma xatsakeuk?
Kekchi (Guatemala) [answer]                  Sa, bantiox
Khakas (Russia)                              Chaxsy irten
Kichaga [Kibosho] (Tanzania)                 Shimboni
Kichaga [Kimashami] (Tanzania)               Nesindisa
Kiga (Africa)                                Oraire gye
Kikuyu (Kenya)                               Wi muhoro
Kinyarwanda (Rwanda)                         Mwaramutse
Kinyarwanda (Rwanda)                         Warumutse ho?
Kinyarwanda (Rwanda) [answer]                Waaramutse
Kirundi (Burundi)                            Mwaramutse
Kisanga (Bunkeya Congo-Kinshasa)             Mwalangikai
Kiswahili (Southeast Africa)                 Habari za asubuhi
Kiswahili (Southeast Africa)                 Habari ya asubuhi
Kiswahili (Southeast Africa) [answer]        Nzuri
Kituba (Congo)                               Mbote na nge
Kituba (Congo) [reply]                       Mbote
Klallam (Washington USA) [it is a good day]  ?Éy' skwáchi
Klallam (Washington USA) [it is a good day]  ?Éy' skwáchi ?áynekw
Komi-Permyak (Russia)                        Bur asyv
Komi-Zyrian (Russia)                         Bur asyv
Konkani (Goa India)                          Dev boro dis dium
Konkani (Goa India)                          Dev boro dis diunk
Korean (Korea) [formal: did you sleep well?] Annyong-hi jumushyossumnikka
Korean (Korea) [inf: did you sleep well?]    Annyong-hi jumushyossoyo
Koromfe (Burkina Faso)                       A dafre jeb ha baani
Koromfe (Burkian Faso)                       A dafre jeb ha a baani
Koromfe (Burkina Faso)                       A sana kibaru
Koromfe (Burkina Faso) [by older people]     N jengst baani
Koromfe (Burkina Faso) [answer]              A  baani
Kosraean (Micronesia)                        Lotuwo
Kosraean (Micronesia)                        Tu wo
Krioulu (Cape Verde)                         Bon dia
Kumeyaay (Southern California)               Nymsup quahaun
Kumeyaay (Southern California)               Eehaun
Kurdi (Iraq, Iran)                           Sibebash
Kurdi (Iraq, Iran)                           Rowj basch
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [singular]        Wa shilwa?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [plural]          Mwa shilwa?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#1: singular]    Wa lele po?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#1: plural]      Mwa lele po?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#2: answ.to #1]  Ee
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#3: answ.to #2]  Nawa tuu?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#4: answ.to #3]  Ee, ove wa lelepo?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#5: answ.to #4]  Ee
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#6: answ.to #5]  Nawa tuu?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#7: answ.to #6]  Ee, onawa
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#1: noon, sing.] Wa uhala po?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#1: noon,plural] Mwa uhala po?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#2: answ.to #1]  Ee
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#3: answ.to #2]  Nawa tuu?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#4: answ.to #3]  Ee, ove wa uhala po?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#5: answ.to #4]  Ee
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#6: answ.to #5]  Nawa tuu?
Kwanyama (Angola, Namibia) [#7: answ.to #6]  Ee, onawa
Kwéyòl (Haiti)                               Bon maten

Ladino (Israel, Turkey)                      Buenos dias
Lakhota (United States)                      Hinhanni waste
Latin (Vatican, ancient Rome)                Ut vales hatie mane?
Latvian (Latvia)                             Labrit
Lenape (Delaware United States)              Kwoapanacheen
Lingala (Congo) [did you sleep well?]        Uazekele?
Lingala (Congo) [how did you sleep?]         Olalaki malamu?
Lingala (Congo) [reply]                      Mbote
Lingua Franca (Mediterranean)                Bon dgiorno
Lithuanian (Lithuania)                       Labas rytas
Lithuanian (Lithuania)                       Laba ryta
Livonian (Latvia) [modern]                   Jõva uomõg
Livonian (Latvia) [older]                    Jõvvõ uomõgt
Low Saxon (Eastern Friesland)                Gode Morgen
Low Saxon (Eastern Friesland)                Goden Morgen
Low Saxon [Northern] (Germany)               Morgen
Low Saxon [Northern] (Germany)               Goden Morgen
Low Saxon [Northern] (Germany)               Gouden morgen
Low Saxon [Westphalian] (Germany)            Gueden Muorgn
Luganda (Uganda) [how was your night?]       Wasuze otya nno?
Luganda (Uganda)                             Wasiz'otya nyabo?
Luganda (Uganda)                             Wasuz'otya?
Luganda (Uganda) [answer]                    Bulungi, wasuze otya nno?
Luganda (Uganda)                             Ibuto?
Luganda (Uganda) [answer]                    Abuto
Luganda (Uganda)                             Ibuto maber?
Luganda (Uganda) [answer]                    Abuto maber
Luiseño (Southern California United States)  Micha shu 'iiq?
Luiseño (Southern California United States)  Poloov temet
Lunyankole (South Uganda)                    Orairegye?
Lunyankole (Mbarara South Uganda)            Oreiregye?
Lunyankole (Mbarara South Uganda)            Oreire ota?
Lunyankole (Mbarara South Uganda) [answer]   Ndaire kurungi
Lunyoro (West Uganda)                        Oraire ota?
Lunyoro (West Uganda) [answer]               Kurungi
Luo (Kenya, Tanzania)                        Oyawore
Luxembourgish (Luxembourg)                   Gudden Muergen

Macedonian (Macedonia)                       Dobro utro
Malay (Malaysia, Brunei)                     Selamat pagi
Malinké (Senegal, Mali)                      Ni soma
Maltese (Malta)                              L-ghodwa t-tajba
Mam (Guatemala) [did you get up?]            Mápa jáwe?
Mam (Guatemala) [answer: yes, I did]         May
Mampruli (Ghana)                             Dasuba
Mandarin (China)                             Ni zao
Mandarin (China)                             Zao an
Mandarin (China)                             Zao chen hao
Mandarin (China)                             Zhao shang hao
Mandinka (West Africa) [singular]            I saama
Mandinka (West Africa) [plural]              Al saama
Mandinka (West Africa)                       Ge iwurara
Manx (Britain)                               Moghrey mie
Manx (Britain)                               Moghrey dhyt
Manx (Britain)                               Maddin vie
Manx (Britain)                               Baill veih jee dhyt
Manx (Britain)                               Baill veih jee hood
Maori (Cook Islands)                         Kia orana 'i teia popongi
Maori (Cook Islands) [midday]                Kia orana 'i teia ra
Mari [Hill Mari] (Russia)                    Pury irok
Mari [Meadow Mari] (Russia)                  Poro er
Marshallese (Marshal Islands)                Yokwe in jibbon
Mashi (Bukavu Congo-Kinshasa)                Asinge
Mawe (Brazil)                                Enodak
Milanese [Lombard] (Milan Italy)             Reverissi
Min Nam [Hokkien] (Taiwan)                   Gau za
Min Nam [Hokkien] (Taiwan)                   Gâo-chá
Minangkabau (West Sumatra Indonesia)         Salamaik pagi
Mixe (Oaxaca Mexico)                         Mai
Mixtec (Chalcatongo Mexico)                  Tàníndi
Mixtec (Chalcatongo Oaxaca Mexico)           Tándi
Mixtec (Chalcatongo Oaxaca Mexico) [noon]    Tàníshiù
Mixtec (Chalcatongo Oaxaca Mexico) [noon]    Táúshiù
Mixtec (Santa Catarina Estetla Mexico)       Kobaadín
Mixtec (Santa Catarina Estetla Mexico)[ans.] Kobadiátu
Mohegan (Eastern USA)                        Weegwasun
Mongolian (Mongolia, Northern China)         Ogloonii mend
Mòoré (Burkina Faso)                         Yibero
Mòoré (Burkina Faso)                         Yibeogo kibaare?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso)                         Yibeogo yaa laafi?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso)                         Yibeogo kiema?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [noon]                  Winngba kibaare?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [noon]                  Winngba yaa laafi?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [noon]                  Winngba kiema?
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [answer]                Laafi
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [answer]                Laafibeme
Mòoré (Burkina Faso) [answer]                Laafibala 
Mordvin (Russia)                             Paro valske
Motu (Papua New Guinea)                      Daba namona
Muskogee (Oklahoma & Florida USA)            Hettv heren ocvs

Náhuatl (Mexico, El Salvador)                Cualli tlanextli
Náhuatl (Mexico, El Salvador)                Cualli tlanezi
Náhuatl (Mexico, El Salvador)                Cualli tlaneci
Náhuatl (Tepoztlan Mexico)                   Cualli motlanezi
Náhuatl [classical] (Aztec Empire)           Ma cualli tlaneci
Náhuatl [classical] (Aztec Empire)           Ma cualli tlanextli
Nama (Namibia)                               !Gâi //goas
Ndebele (Zimbabwe)                           Livukile
Ndebele (Zimbabwe)                           Livuke njani
Ndjuka (Suriname)                            U weki oo
Ndjuka (Suriname)                            Molugu
Ndjuka (Suriname)                            Molugu oo
Ndjuka (Suriname)                            U molugu oo
Nepali (Nepal)                               Shubha prabhat
Nepali (Nepal)                               Shuva bihan
Nigerian Pidgin (Nigeria)                    Good morning
Norwegian [Bokmaal] (Norway)                 God morgen
Norwegian (Norway) [in spoken language]      Godmorn
Norwegian [Sortlandsk] (Sortland Norway)     Go'mårra
Nupe (Africa)                                Okú bè làzì nyi
[Nyankore, see
Lunyankole]

Okanagan (Montana USA)                       Way' xast slkwkw'ast
Okanagan (Montana USA)                       Way' xast lkwkw'ast
Okanagan (Montana USA)                       Xast slkwkw'ast
Okanagan (Montana USA)                       Xast lkwkw'ast
Oromo (Kenya, Somalia)                       Nagambulte
Oromo (Kenya, Somalia)                       Garitoli
Ossetian (Georgia)                           Dæ raisom khorz
Ossetian (Georgia)                           Uæ raisom khorz
Otetela (Lodja Congo-Kinshasa)               Moyo

Palauan (Palau)                              Ungil tutau
Pali (India)                                 Suppabhaatam te
Papiamentu (Dutch Antilles, Aruba)           Bon dia
Paipai (Southern California USA)             Kam'yuli
Paipai (Southern Cal. USA) [not stopping]    Nyumkjkye
Phorhépecha (Michoacán Mexico)               Na erántsku
Phorhépecha (Michoacán Mexico)               Nar erándesk
Phorhépecha (Michoacán Mexico)               Nats erántsku
Phorhépecha (Michoacán Mexico)               Kárinsini
Pijin (Solomon Islands)                      Moning
Pijin (Solomon Islands)                      Gudfala mone
Pijin (Solomon Islands)[good morning to you] Gudfala mone go long iu
Pijin (Solomon Islands)                      Mone
Pijin (Solomon Islands) [answer]             Mone mone mone
Pipil (El Salvador)                          Yehyek tunal
Pipil (El Salvador)                          Bwenas dias
Plattdeutsch (Germany)                       G'n morje
[Police Motu, see
Hiri Motu]
Polish (Poland)                              Dzien dobry
Portuguese (Portugal, Brazil)                Bom dia
Puluwat (Micronesia)                         Nesor állim

Quechua Ayacuchano (Ayacucho Peru)           Allin p'unchay
Quechua Ayacuchano (Ayacucho Peru)           Winus diyas
Quechua Cochabambino (Bolivia)               Allin p'unchaj
Quechua Cuzqueño (Cuzco Peru)                Allin p'unchaw
Quechua Cuzqueño (Cuzco Peru)                Wenos días
Quiché (Guatemala)                           Sakiric
Quichua (Ecuador)                            Alli punzha
Quichua (Ecuador)                            Alli puncha

Romani [Sinte] (Central Europe)              Lashi de tehara
Romani [Sinte] (Central Europe)              Dobroj tume
Romani [Sofia Erli] (Bulgaria)               Lachshí tí yavin
Romani [Sliven] (Bulgaria)                   Bahtali ti avin
Romanian (Romania)                           Bunã dimineata
Romansch (Switzerland)                       Bun di
Russian (Russia)                             Dobroye utro
Rutoro (Uganda)                              Oreire ota?
Rutoro (Uganda) [reply]                      Ndeire kurungi

Saami [Davvi] (Scandinavia)                  Buorre idit
Saami [Davvi] (Scandinavia)                  Buorre i�it
Sakao (Espiritu Santo Island Vanuatu)        Segren vogvog
Sangha (Mali)                                Agapo
Saramaccan (Suriname)                        I weki no
Saramaccan (Suriname) [response]             Mi weki e
Saramaccan (Suriname)                        Nááfu
Sardinian (Italy)                            Bonas dies
Sarnami (Suriname, Holland)                  Subh ba khair
Savonian (Ylä-Savo Finland)                  Hyvvee huomenta
Scots (Scotland)                             Guid mornin
Sepedi (South Africa)                        Robala gabotse
Serbian (Bosnia, Yugoslavia)                 Dobro jutro
Serrere (Senegal, Gambia)                    Ndio ko yong
Sesotho (Lesotho, South Africa)              Mmoro
Sesotho (Lesotho, S Afr.) [plural]           Mmorong
Setswana (South Africa, Botswana)            O tsogile jang
Shambaa (Tanzania)                           Onga mahundo
Shambaa (Tanzania) [reply]                   Ni vedi, hangize wako
Shanghaiese (Shanghai China)                 Han zhou
Shingazidja (Comoros)                        Barza husha
Shipibo (Peru)                               Hacum ya mucuryi
[Shona, see Chishona]
Shuri (Okinawa Japan)                        Ukimi soo chii
Silozi (Zambia, Zimbabwe, Botswana)          Mu lumele
Silozi (Zambia, Zimbabwe, Botswana) [formal] Mu lumele shangwe
Silozi (Zambia, Zimbabwe, Botswana)          Mu zuhile
Silozi (Zambia, Zimbabwe, Botswana)          Mu zuhile cwani
Slovak (Slovakia)                            Dobré ráno
Slovenian (Slovenia)                         Dobro jutro
Somali (Somalia, Ethiopia)                   Subax wanaagsan
Sorbian [Upper Sorbian] (eastern Germany)    Dobre ranje
Sorbian [Upper Sorbian] (e. Germany)[answer] Dobre spodobanje
Sorbian [Lower Sorbian] (eastern Germany)    Dobre zajts'o
Spanish (America, Spain)                     Buenos días
Sranan (Suriname)                            Gu morgu
Sûdovian (Baltic reigon)                     Kailas anksteinai
Sundanese (Indonesia)                        Wilujeng enjing
Susu (Guinea)                                Tena mari
Swedish (Sweden, Finland) [formal]           God morgon

Tagalog (Philippines)                        Magandang umaga
Tagalog (Philippines)                        Magandang umaga po
Tagalog (Philippiens) [at noon]              Magandang tanghali
Tagalog (Philippines) [at noon]              Magandang tanghali po
Tamil (Tamil Nadu India)                     Vanakkam
Tatar (Russia, China)                        Kheerle irte
Tatar (Russia, China)                        Xeyirli irte
Telugu (India)                               Suprabhaatam
Telugu (India)                               Shobhodayam
Tetum (East Timor)                           Dadeer kmanek
Tetum (East Timor)                           Dader diak
[Teuso, see
Icetot]
Thai (Thailand)                              Sawatdi torn chao
Tibetan (China, Nepal, India)                Nga-to delek
Tigrinya (Ethiopia) [to man]                 Dehan haderka
Tigrinya (Ethiopia) [to woman]               Dehan haderki
Tlingit (Canada, USA)                        Juk'e-ri-tsu-tat
Tok Pisin (Papua New Guinea)                 Moning
Tok Pisin (Papua New Guinea)                 Monin
Tok Pisin (Papua New Guinea)                 Monin tru
Tongan (Tonga, Pacific Islands) [daylight]   Malo e tau ma'u 'a e 'aho' ni
Tongan (Tonga, Pacific Islands) [morning]    Malo tau ma'u e pongipongi ni
Tongan (Tonga, Pacific Islands) [morning]    Malo e tau lava ki he pongipongi' ni
Trobes Tokples (Trobriand Papua New Guinea)  Bwena kau kwau
Tsonga (South Africa)                        Avusheni
Turkish (Turkey, Northern Cyprus)            Günaydin
Turkmen (Turkmenistan)                       Ertiriniz hajïrlï bolsun

Udmurt (Russia)                              Ziech chuknaen
Ukrainian (Ukraine)                          Dobri ranok
Ukrainian (Ukraine)                          Dobroho ranki
Unagan (Alaska, Russia) [morning]            Qilachxizax
Ute (Colorado and Utah USA)                  Ati'wichgusak
Uvean (Wallis and Futuna)                    Malo te ma'uli

Valencian (Spain)                            Bon dia
Venda (South Africa)                         Ndi matsheloni
Veps (western Russia)                        Hüväd homendest
Vietnamese (Vietnam)                         Chào buổi s�ng Visayan (Philippines)                        Maayong buntang Visayan (Philippines) [noon]                 Maayong udto Võru (Võrumaa Estonia)                       Tereq hummogust Võru (Võrumaa Estonia)                       Tereh hummogust Votic (Russia)                               Üvä oomni  Waali (Northwestern Ghana)                   Ansomaa Welsh (Wales)                                Bore da Wolof (West Africa)                          Jama nga fanaan Wolof (West Africa)                          Yamanga fanin Wolof (West Africa)                          Naka subaci  Xhosa (South Africa)                         Bhota  Yacouba (Côte d'Ivoire, Liberia) [man]       Unzhu babo Yacouba (Côte d'Ivoire, Liberia) [woman]     Na babo Yao (Malawi, Tanzania, Mozambique)           Subayeedi Yao (Malawi, Tanzania, Mozambique)           Kuceele Yiddish (Russia, USA)                        Ah gut morgen Yitchogo (Gabon) [to a woman]                Yi maram bouga Yoruba (West Africa) [honorific]             E káàrò Yoruba (West Africa) [non-honorific]         O káàrò Yoruba (West Africa) [same age or younger]   Ku aro Yoruba (West Africa) [to older person]       E ku aro  Zapotec (Villa Alta Mexico)                  Padiull Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico)                    Padiox Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico)                    Padioxei Zapotec (Yatzachi Mexico) [old]              Sha'oza zil Zapotec (Yulalag Mexico)                     Padiuzhe Zarma (Niger, Nigeria, Burkina Faso)         Matinkeni Zjerma (Niger)                               Aran kani baani Zulu (Southern Africa)                       Umhlala gahle 

amazing thing evry second!



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Sunday, August 2, 2009

Take time out to read-grown-up child

Here is the list of wishes that a grown-up child expects from parents. Each one may look simple but put them together, this collection is really a powerful ready reckoner, to know about the genuine desires of a child, that would make them intelligent, independent, composed, affectionate to society and ultimately a good citizen to the country.

Encourage me when I do a good job.

Let me teach you some things. Don't always be the teacher.


Don't show too much affection in public.

Let me take some risks; you did when you were young.


Try not to miss my ball games, school plays or the other activities that are special to me

Respect my Privacy.

Say "YES" more often than "NO"

Take me on short errands with you if I want to go


Getting a pet is a great idea.

Set limits on the amount of television I watch.

Help me to develop a skill or talent that will last a liftetime.

Give me reasons for your demands

Family activities really make me feel close to everyone.

Take time to explain things to me.

Hang out with me sometimes

Understand that I don't try to make you mad; it just happens. I don't like being on your bad side.

Please stop showing pictures of me to everyone you meet. This is very embarrassing.

Tell me what's going on with family problems or any other problems. It hurts me when I know that I'm not being included.


Board games can be fun to play with the family.

Keep your word.

Keep praying for me. It makes me feel secure.

Ask for forgiveness of me sometimes.

Don't always give me what I keep asking you for.

Make sure you listen to my answers when you ask me questions.

Listening is one of the best ways to show me you love me.


If I spend a lot of time on the phone with my friends, don't get worked up.

Stop comparing me to my brothers or sisters or to my classmates. We are all different and want to be treated as individuals.


If I lose at something, let me have some time to myself. Later you can tell me what I did wrong .. And what I did right.

Always buy me clothes that are in fashion not something you would wear.

Teach me about different religions,cultures and races.

 

Discuss movies after we see them. This teaches me to evaluate things.

Don't tell me my fears are silly.

Let me express myself through my hair and clothes.

Even though I complain about Maths lessons, make me stick with them.

Keep encouraging me to follow my dreams. Mine are different than yours.

Encourage me to save and not to buy things so quickly.

Encourage me to be honest.

Don't keep changing the rules.

Make sure I have a quiet place and a regular time to do home work

Trust me.

Nagging doesn't work in the long run

I can't always get good grades-sometimes I get nervous and make mistakes.

Don't push me into a specific sport. Introduce me to lots of activities and let me choose what I like

Teach me to be kind.

Don't correct my mistakes in front of my friends. Save your criticisms until we are alone.

Arguments are a natural part of being a family.

Don't begin sentences with "When I was your age … ".

Have at least one meal as a family each day.

Ask open - ended questions, it helps me solve my own problems.

Tell me about our family history - it makes me proud.

Set clear, consistent boundaries.

Share the experiences that you had as a kid-even the mistakes and embarrassing times.

Tell me when you're in a bad mood or are having a bad day. That way I won't be so hurt if you say something dumb.


I like us to go to the temple together as a family.

Set a good example for me when it comes to habits like smoking or drinking.

Remember I can't read your mind.

Teach me to keep trying.

I may need rules, but not too many.


When I am with my friends, don't always try to hang out with us.

You and I can spend time together later.

Let me decide my own bedtime.

Occasionally I still like to be kissed by both of my parents.


Cheer for my whole team, not just for me.

Know what I am watching on T.V. I am really not old enough to see somethings.

Your praise means more to me than anyone else's.

Make sure that my friends feel welcome at our house.

Don't say things you don't mean when you are angry.

Sometimes discuss problems with me when you don't know the solutions.

Instead of giving orders, Offer choices.

Never, Never call me by my pet name in

Give me more responsibilites as I prove myself ready.

Let me decorate my own room, but you can give me advice.

Encourage me to start a collection of something interesting.

Teach me good manners.

Rent videos with a message for the family to watch.

Be aware of the music I listen to. Take the time to introduce me to other types of music.

Teach me to compare prices before buying.

Read the newpaper with me sometimes and discuss what's going on.

Let me go to the movies with a friend. We will get the tickets and the food and meet you later.

Always make time for me. We can sit around and talk, read a book, or do something else. The important thing is that you like to spend time with me.

Help me to pick out good books.

Don't make any promises you might not be able to keep.

Take me with you to work. It helps me to understand who you are.

Occsionally watch my favourite T.V. shows with me..


I like it when you have fun with my friends and me. They usually don't see parents acting so crazy.

Don't bottle up your problems. Share them.

Think of recreational things we can do together.

Pets teach responsibility.

Whenever possible let us kids resolve Our Differences by ourselves. We need to learn to work things out for ourselves.

can't always rely on you to be around to solve every problem.

Compliment my friends

 

Tell me about your disapointments.

Don't be sarcastic.

Teach me right and wrong.

Allow me to use some of your valuable possessions like your camera.

Help me to learn some world geography.

Let me see you helping someone in need.

Sometimes listen to my friends and me

Let's once in a while take turns reading out loud.

Teach me how to cook.

Keep chart of my accomplishments and achievements.

Try not to embarrass me by the way you dress.

Let me choose my own friends.

Answer my questions, even if the answer is embarrassing.

Teach me to be a good winner and a good loser.


Please don't yell at me when there's a problem. The less anger the easier it is to understand one another.

The next time I have a day off from school, take a day off from work and spend the time with me. You can get to know me better.

When telling me about your rules, make sure I understand the consequences.

Even smart kids may made mistakes. I am smart, not perfect.


Don't keep adding on punishments. Don't ground me and then decide that I also can't use the phone, and then that I also can't watch T.V.

Keep encouraging me to read

Remember that my room is the only Private place that I can call my own. If I don't want to keep it perfectly neat, let me.


Make up a list of my chores. That way I know exactly what I need to do and you won't have to keep reminding me.

Teach me about love and affection.

Help me plan ahead. High School will be scary enough even without a plan.

Introduce me to lots of different things. Even if I never want to do something again, you have given me the experience.

Try to remember what it was like being my age.

Teach me how to relax.

Teach me to pray about my problems.

Give me enough pocket money so that I can learn how to spend wisely and how to save.

If you must fight, remember that I am close enough to hear you..


Don't be so overprotective. If I am not allowed to make mistakes, I can't learn from my mistakes.

Don't judge my friends by their clothes or hair. After all, I saw something in them that made me want their friendship.

I like the little private notes you sometimes leave me.

Help me with my homework when I need you to.

If I come home late, I might have a good reason. Ask for it before you get upset.

Teach me to be kind.

Don't punish me if I don't do well in school. Instead, work with me to improve.

I am no longer the little child you think of me as, but I am also not as grown-up as I like to pretend.

Talk to me about god.

Encourage me to use a computer. I'll be glad later.


When I ask a question, make sure I understand your answer.


Don't bring up past mistakes. Forgive and forget.

Don't automatically blame until you know the facts.

Take me to the hospital sometimes when you visit friends who are ill. It makes me appreciative of good health.


Believe in me.

Assist with my chores when I ask for help.

Help me to get organized.

Listen to my music with me occasionally.

Teach me to respect elders.

A cloth allowance teaches me to make good choices and saves us all hassles.

When I have a bad attitude or do something mean, tell me.


 

Pay my allowance on a regular basis. Don't make me have to ask for it.

Listen to my jokes and experiences in classroom.

Don't assume my teen years will be a hassle.

Have a set time for us to do family chores.

I like it when you play practical jokes on us.

Look at family photo albums with me and tell me about the relatives.

Don't always let me win when we play games or sports.


Don't shout to make a point.

Never call me stupid or dumb.

Encourage me to exercise regularly.

Even when I do something wrong, let me know you love me.

Don't set unrealistic goals.

Sometimes I just want to be left alone.

Control the amount of time I play video games.

I like it when you have fun with me..

Thank me and point it out when I am polite.


Allow me to keep some of my money in a safe, secret place.

Make sure that I understand the meaning behind the words on my posters and T-shirts

Ask my opinion sometimes.

Let yourself be a parent, not a policeman.

Spread your love around. Give equal attention to each child in the family.

Remember that even though I don't always say it, I appreciate all you do for me.

Don't visit my school too oftem. It is embarrassing to me.

Please do not smoke or drink. I want you to be with us for more years.

Introduce your friends to me.

Let me know about or relatives.

Teach me about hospitality.

When we go on tour, let me do the cash transaction. I will give account later.

When I am ill, I want you to take care of me personally.

Be punctual before asking me to be punctual.